Age (not-old) Advice
By Rhonda Mullen, Photography by Jack Kearse
She's 69. He's 24.
She's conservative. He's liberal.
She's from Tennessee. He's from California.
But when it comes down to it, Charlotte Slovis-Cooper and Jacob Khoubian share more in common than not. "Sometimes I'm an old soul but young at heart," Khoubian says. "She's like that too."
Khoubian met Cooper last year at the beginning of his first year as a medical student at Emory. She was his mentor in a pilot program that paired medical and nursing students with older adults to allow both to benefit.
The program gave students a chance to practice communication skills that are vital to good clinicians and to develop professionalism early in their training. Within their first weeks of school, they were getting to know their assigned mentors and already discussing sensitive health and personal information.
For seniors like Cooper, the program gave them a chance to share decades of valuable wisdom and to dispel stereotypes about aging. "Sometimes people look at you and all they see is gray hair," says Cooper. "Then they put you into a whole different category. But this program lets the students see how active we are in body and mind. It gives them a different perspective of the word ‘old.'"
Mind the gap
From the get-go, Khoubian knew that his conversations with Cooper were different from those with his grandparents. The first assignment of the curriculum—getting to know each other—got the two off to a good start. Khoubian learned that Cooper has a twin brother and an older sister. She belongs to two book clubs, a walking group, and an athletic club. She enjoys concerts, plays, and visits to museums and also volunteers at the Toco Hills NORC (naturally occurring retirement community) and a local senior center. Her husband isn't eligible to participate in the program because he is 10 years her junior.
"We talked about all sorts of things—her health, friends, decisions about what she wants for the future. We definitely had a very real discussion," says Khoubian of the monthly meetings that took place over the course of the year.
The program, with funding from Emory's Center for Community Partnerships, goes beyond the boundaries of the clinical rotations that will come later, giving students an intimate look into the daily lives of senior adults outside the hospital or clinic setting. It lets them see older adults as people as opposed to patients.
Paul Miller and Terrica WilsonChanging courses In 1932, when Paul Miller was born, attention deficit disorder didn't yet have a name, and he remembers having to sit in the corner of his classroom, wearing a dunce hat because his teachers didn't know what to do with him. Miller grew up to conquer his ADD, own a thriving pharmacy, and raise a family. Miller's mentee, nursing student Terrica Wilson, can tell you all that and more. Miller can tell you about his mentee too. A native of Louisiana, Wilson came to Atlanta for a corporate job but soon decided to go back to school at Emory to become a pediatric intensive care nurse. He also adds, "She's as sweet as can be." |
It is one project of the Atlanta Regional Geriatric Education Center (ARGEC)—one of 44 centers funded nationally by the Health Resources and Services Administration to improve education of health professionals and in turn better the lives of older adults. The ARGEC is a partnership among Emory's schools of medicine, nursing, and public health along with Morehouse School of Medicine, Georgia State University, and the Atlanta Regional Commission. It serves the 10-county Atlanta metro area.
Chuck Nicolaysen and Kayla TullochA mathematician's summation Having worked with young people all of his life, former Emory administrator and math teacher Chuck Nicolaysen saw the senior mentoring program as an opportunity. "I assumed Kayla was going to learn everything she could about me," he says of Kayla Tulloch, the pediatric nursing student who was his mentee. They got to know each other over home-cooked meals that his wife prepared, and Nicolaysen introduced the Tennessee native to Stone Mountain Park. His words of wisdom for the mentees? "Just because you're up in age doesn't mean you're old. |
One of the ARGEC's goals is to fill gaps in the education of future clinicians. Community-based learning and engagement are prerequisites for informed practitioners, says Emory geriatrician Jonathan Flacker, who helped design the senior mentoring program. "The health of older people is strongly related to the communities where they live," he says.
The program is intentionally multidisciplinary, teaching students to work in teams across the clinical professions. This fall it expanded to include physician assistant students at Emory.
Ronald Johnson and Patrick KrugerWalking the dog Ronald Johnson, professor emeritus of chemistry at Emory, and advance practice nursing student Patrick Kreuger faithfully followed the assignments suggested by the senior mentoring program. "We both like to get her down and stick to the plan," says Johnson. Kreuger, who works at Grady while pursuing a degree as an emergency nurse practitioner, was surprised by Johnson's schedule in retirement. "He has his hands in lots of things—going to book club, volunteering at church, playing bridge, tutoring refugees. He's as busy as I am." The two met for their mentoring sessions in various locations on campus and at Johnson's home nearby, but their favorite was Lullwater Park, where Kreuger got to know not only Johnson but also Fitzgerald, his dog (named for a vet on Animal Planet). |
"Getting 20-year-olds to talk to 80-year-olds is illuminating," says Ellen Idler, who teaches epidemiology of aging classes at Emory's Rollins School of Public Health. One of her students showed older adults at Wesley Woods Towers, a senior independent-living community, how to get on Facebook. Another interviewed a resident at A.G. Rhodes, a nursing home on the Wesley Woods campus, for an assignment and returned a week later to play checkers, bringing along another student for her older friend to meet.
Pass the BBQ and a lifetime of experience
In July, Flacker and his co-planners began analyzing feedback from the participants to evaluate the pilot year and improve the program for the coming year. But to judge from reactions of seniors and students at a BBQ celebration held at a local park to discuss the program's first year, the overwhelming response was positive. Not only had the seniors and students shared dreams, activities, and health information but they also had developed friendships that promise to outlast the official boundaries of the program.
Groups of mentors and students clustered around a picnic table, chatting noisily.
So how is your wife?
Did your grandson get home from school okay?
Where have you been? I was wondering the same thing. Where have you been?
Pass it on:If you'd like to help expand the senior mentoring program, please contact Director of Development Alicia Kanjira at alicia.kanjira@emory.edu or 404-727-3989. Want More?Related video: "Emory Senior Mentoring Program" |
One group that included husband-and-wife mentors Jack and Stella DeLeon were planning what they dubbed "some postgraduate education" with their medical student mentees at their home in Big Canoe, Ga. Will they volunteer to mentor again next year? "Yeah," comes Jack DeLeon's resounding answer. But his mentee chimes in, "I don't know if you'll like the newbies as much as us."
As for Cooper, she pauses for a moment in a conversation with Khoubian about his upcoming trip home for his sister's wedding, to add her own perspective on the mentoring program.
"We don't feel left out any more," she says. "We feel we're being listened to."
And like a good Jewish mother she adds, "Jacob is superb. He's going to be a wonderful doctor. I love him." EH